info@thenourished-tribe.com

+65 97739352

Consultations in clinic in Singapore or online

  • White Instagram Icon
  • White Facebook Icon
  • White LinkedIn Icon
  • Grey Facebook Icon
  • Grey Twitter Icon
  • Grey Instagram Icon

Festive FOMO

December 20, 2018

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are YOU suffering from festive FOMO?

FOMO shorthand for fear of missing out – is the acute and often unjustified belief that everyone is having way more fun than you, and that you're somehow being left out of all the said fun. And it reaches its annual high any day now.

Small wonder. Apparently, we cram 44% more social occasions into December than any other month!  

But FOMO really is not your friend this month (or indeed any month) – especially if you want to maintain your health goals and weight over the holiday period.

Let’s take a look at how that festive FOMO usually pans out…

You’re committed to healthy eating at Christmas, and you go to a Christmas party. The food looks delicious, but you are watching your weight, so your deprived mouth can only water.  However subconsciously there’s a very subtle fear that you are never going to be able to have any of these delicious treats ever again. The fear of missing out activates your survival instinct to consume everything and anything. And so, you succumb to temptation, and your healthy eating plans are obliterated. The self-recriminations start.  

Here’s the thing you need to know about FOMO. We are culturally programmed to over-value losses and under-value gains. So we put more importance on the food we may be missing out on, and less on our goals and wellbeing.

The big question, of course, is what are you are you really missing out on? Nothing. OK, maybe some sweet or high-carb treats, some booze filled evenings and such. But eating and drinking these have a flipside: blood sugar imbalance/ energy crashes, poor sleep, almost certain weight gain (if you consume in excess) – and that’s without mentioning the negative self-talk for having over-indulged.

There’s another thing about this festive FOMO and it’s that it has you giving up taking responsibility for your actions around food and alcohol (you would have been able to resist, right, but it was the party season?)

 

 

FIX YOUR FOMO AROUND FOOD

There are several things going on when it comes to food. Your fear of ‘missing out’ on that delicious desert is the first.

But also refusing food (though it should be a basic human right) is mired in emotional meaning both for you and for the host.

The answer is not to find more and more creative ways to say no

The key thing to understand is that it doesn’t mean anything about your relationship with food, or how you feel about the host if you don’t eat said food. It simply means you just don’t want the mince pie!

Your action plan is this:

  1. HAVE AN ACTUAL PLAN Before you go to bed each night, plan out your food for the next day. This is never truer than at Christmas, when parties, chocolates, and “treats” are just about everywhere.

  2. DON’T TRY TO DIET JUST NOW Set a maintenance goal instead. This is much more realistic and it is achievable, even at this time of year. It will also give you the freedom to enjoy yourself without feeling deprived, or that you’ve failed, which in turn means you’re more likely to rebel (and this is code for heading straight for the box of chocolates without a second glance).

  3. BE BALANCED Manage portions. Eat slowly. Savour each mouthful.

  4. YOU EAT WELL AT OTHER MEALS. Lots of vegetables. Making sure you’re feeling full with smart carbohydrate choices and plenty of protein-rich foods. Then you head to your party, have one or two drinks, a few nibbles and – most of all – enjoy time with the people you love!

  5. DON’T GO TO A PARTY HUNGRY If you do, you’ll be fighting a loosing battle. Have a snack before you go – just a little something that includes protein and slow release carbs (unsweetened nut butter on an oatcake, for example).

  6. KEEP FAMILY CHOCOLATES OUT OF SIGHT so you’re not tempted to tuck in just because they’re there.  Out of sight, out of mind or just don’t buy them!

 

FIX YOUR FOMO AROUND ALCOHOL

Frequently, partygoers who are cautious about their alcohol consumption are viewed with suspicion. But how does the amount of socialising stack up against your health goals?

 if you want to have a few glasses of wine, please do have a few glasses of wine. But make that decision inside of what you know to be your social schedule over the entire Christmas period.

To be clear, you absolutely can honour all your social commitments but, in order not to find yourself tempted by the usual crash diet in January, hear this: it IS possible to go out, have fun, eat well and not have everyone notice you are being ‘healthy’.

Make sure you compensate for your party nights with lots of alcohol-free nights.  The benefits of these are that you’ll sleep better, wake feeling more refreshed, you’ll have much more energy, and your mood will be better. The impact on your waistline will be positive, too – alcohol is a big contributor to belly fat and is brimming with unnecessary calories

Here are a few suggestions for cutting down or managing your alcohol –

 

  1. Decide how much you are going to drink (maximum) before you go out.

  2. Don’t feel pressurised by others. It’s your life and you are the one who makes the decisions.

  3. Have an excuse ready when you want to give it a miss (remember ‘no, thanks, I’d rather have ….’ is perfectly OK.

If you focus on what you will be gaining from having a plan and keeping to your health goals rather than on what you are missing out on January will be a much nicer month! 

Share on Facebook
Share on Twitter
Please reload

RECIPE POSTS
Please reload

BLOG POSTS
Please reload

FOLLOW US
  • Facebook Basic Square
  • Twitter Basic Square
  • Google+ Basic Square